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*Outfit Details: Dress (Primark) | Mules (Jessica Simpson) | Bag (Luana Italy) | Jewelry (Kolletin) 

I did a podcast interview with Sheena Yap at the beginning of summer and I am so excited to finally share it with you all since it went live a few weeks ago. Please go listen to it here because I am very passionate about the topic of self confidence. I have been obsessed with podcasts this year and it’s such a great way to open up your mind and learn about topics that help with self growth and improvement. I hadn’t heard of The Tao of Self Confidence’s podcast before but I am so glad Sheena approached me because I think what she’s doing is truly amazing and inspirational for women all over the world.

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In the episode, I talk about what self confidence means to me and below is a quick summary of the other topics covered:

Definition of Self Confidence

Self confidence is being comfortable in your own skin, owning all your flaws and
imperfections.  It is also the way you carry yourself, the vibe you give, mindset and attitude.

Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence

Mariann used to be obsessed with her physical appearance.  She would compare herself to others especially when she sees others on social media.

The “AHA” Moment

Mariann was reading a lot of books such as ‘You are a Badass’ and ‘The Book of Joy’ and she started to focus more on happiness since happiness and confidence are interrelated.  She started to work on being comfortable in her own skin because there are more benefits on taking pride in who you are than complaining or dwelling.

Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence

Mariann is still a work in progress but she is happier.  She finds life to be more fulfilled because of her confidence, she knows everything falls into place.

The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener

Stay positive, be patient and trust in the process.  Self confidence is a journey, it’s not instant just like finding happiness and when you find yourself comparing yourself to others, remember that you own
something that they don’t and they have flaws too.

If you took your time to listen to the podcast, please comment on your thoughts as I’d love to get your feedback!

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42 comments

Lauren Lindmark October 4, 2017 - 15:45

Definitely going to listen to this episode, I need it!! Love your dress in this post girl – so gorgeous!

Lauren Lindmark | https://www.dailydoseofcharm.com

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 5, 2017 - 20:36

Please do 🙂 I think the message of this podcast is extremely powerful and I would love to hear your thoughts!

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Jessi Malay October 4, 2017 - 23:26

So glad you found some self-confidence girl! You look so gorgeous and happy in your photos, thanks for being such a good role model and inspiration for others <3

XO, Jessi
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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 5, 2017 - 20:36

Thank you so much Jessi 🙂

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Sharon Wu October 5, 2017 - 05:19

You are so beautiful inside and out girl! Thanks for sharing your wisdom and tips. I love this ruffly dress on you, and the plum color is perfect for fall! xo, sharon

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 5, 2017 - 20:33

Thank you Sharon! The color and style sold me on this dress 🙂

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Christine Kong October 5, 2017 - 11:55

This topic is so important to me as well as I feel that everyone should be confident in who they are and work with their positive traits hence how Daily Kongfidence came about. In any case this is such a wonderful topic for women and men of all ages. We all have amazing traits and talents to share and need to focus on those than worrying about what we think we don’t have. Congrats on the brilliant podcast babe’. Xoxo, Christine
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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 5, 2017 - 20:33

Thank you Christine! I am so glad you enjoyed it because it was a topic I was extremely passionate about and definitely wanted to share my thoughts 🙂

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Gracie October 5, 2017 - 20:51

Mariann this is a great post. I feel like I have self confidence but I think we all should continue to work on ourselves. It is a daily thing for me. Thank you for posting.

Xxgracie

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:41

I’m glad you found it helpful!

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gup October 5, 2017 - 21:15

That dress is so gorgeous! I love the colour and all the shoulder details, definitely an autumn vibe! x

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Kathrine Eldridge October 5, 2017 - 22:28

Love this bold colored wrap dress! So chic and I adore that bag.

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:40

Thank you Katherine 🙂

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Maria | Short Girl Long Jacket October 6, 2017 - 00:08

Gorgeous colours, I love these photos! Self confidence is definitely important but you’re right, it’s a journey. I have my ups and downs but for the most part I think it’s there for me 🙂

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:40

I’m on the same boat! Confidence doesn’t always come easy but we can work on it!

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Candace October 6, 2017 - 02:37

Your podcast will be the first I listen to! Even being confident, I still struggle with being self-confident sometimes and I find myself comparing myself to others, which I shouldn’t. I’m so excited to listen in 🙂

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:39

I would love to hear your thoughts!

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Pentené October 6, 2017 - 04:40

Really, really good post babe! Love the topic. These steps are important towards self improvement. I have learned to trust the process and that everything you go through is to grow you. Thanks for sharing beautiful. And I love your dress!

Xoxo
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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:36

Thanks love!

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Laura Mitbrodt October 6, 2017 - 08:44

Your dress is so amazing, I love the colour and sleeve details
xo
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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:36

Thank you so much Laura!

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Heidi October 6, 2017 - 10:58

Such an inspiring post xx
I have been battling with self-confidence for a long time now, but it get’s better with days passing. Not an easy process, but it gets better.

Heidi ✨ | Heidi’s Planner | Instagram

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:36

As I mentioned in the podcast, it’s a journey so don’t worry if you don’t fully feel confident right now. I go through my phases every now and then too but as long as you stay true to your values, I think you can adopt it over time.

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Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom October 6, 2017 - 14:10

I think self confidence is something most people struggle with and it can be the hardest thing to achieve some days! I love those yellow shoes with this dress, you definitely look posed and confidence in these photos!

Carrie
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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 6, 2017 - 16:34

Thank you so much Carrie. I think also you gain confidence with age!

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Katya October 7, 2017 - 22:09

Thanks for delighting us with your confidence inside out. You are such an inspiration. Btw, that bag is gorgeous!

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 8, 2017 - 16:30

Thank you darling!

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Sabiha October 8, 2017 - 14:05

That’s fantastic, clearly it’s something you are very passionate about. Well done x

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 8, 2017 - 16:29

Thanks Sabiha!

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Jo October 8, 2017 - 15:26

Sounds like an amazing podcast! Definitely have to have a listen! I agree, self confidence is a journey and that you just have to trust the process. You look amazing in that dress by the way!

xo, Jo

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 8, 2017 - 16:28

You should definitely listen to it and let me know what you think 🙂

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Samantha Mariko October 8, 2017 - 16:02

Maintaining a positive attitude is so important for better self confidence. I can feel myself immediately losing confidence in myself when I starting thinking negative thoughts. I loved reading these facts about you and I need to check out these titles you mentioned!
xo Samantha

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 8, 2017 - 16:27

Thank you Samantha! I sometimes get consumed by negative thoughts too and it’s obviously part of life but adopting a positive mindset is a progress and I’m still currently working on it.

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Emily October 8, 2017 - 21:02

Gorgeous outfit! Love how unique the sleeves on this dress are. 🙂

-Emily http://www.coatandcoffee.com

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 9, 2017 - 16:53

Thank you Emily!

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marcy October 12, 2017 - 11:14

Loosing confidence in ourselves is very common in the digital world we are but always be surround it of positiveness and good people will help you to avoid that! Definitely need to listen to this post cast!

xoxo
Marcy

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 12, 2017 - 15:04

Please do and let me know what you think!

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Irina October 15, 2017 - 07:16

I love your dress so much! It looks so cute.

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mariann.yip@gmail.com October 16, 2017 - 16:04

Thanks Irina 😉

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Bea March 24, 2018 - 01:18

Loving your style! You are so chic. Would you like to follow for follow on Bloglovin? 🙂

Xx,

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mariann.yip@gmail.com March 26, 2018 - 15:48

Thank you Bea!

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