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I can’t believe it’s already February! February is a month that I think doesn’t get enough attention simply because it’s the shortest month of the year. I however, do enjoy February because it’s a great transition into March, which for some reason always seems like a transitional time as we head to spring. Remember, when I wrote about my 5 goals for January here?
We’ll I just reflected back on those goals and I am so happy to announce that I have achieved all of them! So I”m back again with setting goals for this month, but since this month is really hectic for me, I decided not to overwhelm myself, so I am giving myself three goals, instead of five.
- Remember that it’s okay to spoil yourself: I will be in Milan the first week of February and then to Vegas for my best friend’s bachelorette. I am very good with budgeting and spending wisely during trips, but I want to remind myself that it’s okay to spoil myself during this time. The Milan trip is in a way a birthday gift to myself and if I fall in love with a designer bag or really want to have a fancy meal, I want to be able to do it without feeling guilty. In addition, I want to be able to let loose in Vegas and make sure my best friend has an amazing time because this is the first bachelorette party I have ever been a part of! This might seem like an odd goal for some people, but this is something I think will allow me to be more flexible with my money so I can make memories!
- Incorporate meditation at least once a week: I’ve been reading articles about the benefits of meditation, but I never was the type to get into it. I am all about trying out new things and getting out of my comfort zone, so I definitely want to start incorporating meditation into my morning routine. Instead of jumping into it, I will plan on doing 5 minute meditation using the app CALM and see how I feel. If I like it, then perhaps I will meditate for longer, but since this month will be busy for me, hopefully this can improve my mental state of mind and sanity!
- Spend quality time with family: I’ve already reiterated how crazy this month is for me, but it’s also an important month for my family. My mom’s birthday is on Valentine’s Day and Chinese New Year is on the 16th. For those two days, I don’t want to worry about work. I want to devote all my time and attention to spending time with my family. I enjoy Chinese New Year and want to see the dragon show in Chinatown this year. With these two holidays being smacked into the middle of the month, I am hoping to use both days to unwind and spend quality time with my family.
You will hear from me at the end of the month to see if I’ve accomplished these goals, but I have full faith and confidence in myself because these are realistic and that’s the whole point of setting monthly goals! I highly recommend you all to try this for yourself because not only do I feel accomplished when I self reflect, but it’s a great way to analyze what you want to achieve and see that you are capable of doing so! Let me know below what is one of your goals for the month of February!
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Good luck with your Feb’ goals 😉 I’ll be in Vegas as well next week 😉 And nice winter outfit!
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Seems like we might be in Vegas at the same time!
Gosh what a lovely place and pictures.
You set some amazing goals hun, wish you so much luck.
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Thanks Amely! I hope you achieve your goals as well 🙂
Great goals! I would love to add meditation to my daily schedule. Good luck meeting all of your goals, beautiful!
Kara Aragon
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Thank you Kara! I think meditation is good for the soul 🙂
Oh wow, love your outfit !!! so stylish as always
Have a nice evening 🙂
Olivia <3
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Thank you Olivia 🙂
Beautiful colors and perfect tips! Having time for ourselves and our beloveds is SO important!
xx Elisa
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I’m so glad you can relate 🙂
Yes, spending quality time with your family is so important. I tried to do that on a daily basis.
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When you grow older, you start to realize how precious your family is!
This is such a good idea to do monthly goals to keep oneself in check! Giving myself a lot of me time every month is important too, and I really need to get into meditation step by step! I love these outfit photos and gorgeous NYC in the background<3
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Thank you Samantha! Setting these monthly goals has been one of the best decisions I’ve made since this year started.
Great post babe!! It’s always important to make goals for yourself and stay motivated!
XO, Jessi
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It helps me stay accountable especially when I’m writing it on my blog!
These are great goals, spoil yourself on your trips girl! You’re going to have so much fun in Vegas!
Brooke
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Milan was amazing! I just came back from Vegas and had a blast as well. Can’t wait to share both experiences 🙂
Love your goals!! Great style too 😉
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Agnese & Elisa
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Thank you love!
these photos are so lovely! yes sometimes it’s good to treat yourself every once in a while, i feel that we’re too hard on ourselves sometimes!
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I couldn’t agree more! I am always saying yes to everything, but it’s important to evaluate your decisions to see what your priorities are.
So lucky! Milan and Vegas in one month! Have a wonderful time. Looking forward to seeing your new bag. I’ve been thinking lots about mindfulness and will look into the app you suggested.
Aliya
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I’m so glad you are also thinking of becoming more mindful. It’s all about positive energy and finding balance in your life.
Great goals to be mindful of! Love the first one especially! I am long overdue for a good old pampering sessh 🙂
xo, Jo
It’s important to do something for yourself every now and then. It took me a while to learn this, but I’m so glad I’m focusing on it now.
Love the pictures and I totally agree to treating yourself. It’s nice to give yourself a little treat every once in awhile.
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Self care is a big priority for me right now. I need to put myself first because that would help me improve on all areas of my life.
great goals darling! so true — we need to spoil ourselves once in a while. i am doing the same thing and booked a facial on tuesday and cannot wait 😉 xo, sharon
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Oh a facial sounds amazing! I would love to schedule a massage for myself!
Great goals. I am trying to incorporate some downtime as well. Love those jeans.
Amy Ann
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This month has been crazy hectic for me so I can trying my best to find time for myself.
I hope you have a peaceful, and balanced February! Meditation would be great for your busy schedule, and I hope you find time for family <3
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Thank you Bernice. I am currently working on all three areas 🙂
These are great goals to have for everyone. I love that you go on so many trips and yes, treating yourself here and there is what makes working so hard worth it and fun! So sad we missed each other in Vegas…one day we will meet! I haven’t tried meditating before but everyone is raving about it so it must work. I need to try it once soon. Have the best time with your family celebrating such important events. Happy birthday to your mother and Happy Chinese New Year! xoxo, Christine
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Thank you Christine! I am so bummed we missed each other as well, but I know our paths will cross soon 🙂
You look amazing!! What a fabulous place dear!!
xx
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Thank you!
Love your February goals babe!! Its always great to put and write your goals to remember! Spending time with your family is always a goal of mine
xoxo
Marcy
This month has been dedicated a lot to family and I am loving it 🙂