*Outfit Details: Jacket (Malik Rajani) | Bag (Ellia Wang) | Dress (Aeidaine) | Sneakers (Koio) | Sunglasses (Yohji Yamamoto)
Out of all the apps that I use, I can say without hesitation that I use Instagram the most. It’s the platform that I have my largest following and to be honest, I love using it not only for sharing my content, but also connecting with others. It’s funny how life works because just a month ago, I was finding myself in a slump without much work or motivation since the holidays were hectic and slow and now I have found myself stressed with everything that’s been going on.
Just to give you all some background, I have a few campaigns that I am working with. I am very excited for the work, but the timing is pretty tight since I also have my birthday coming up next weekend and my Milan trip the week after. I am also in my best friend’s wedding and her bachelorette is taking place in mid February. As you all know, NYFW is also right around the corner, so everything for me right now is happening back to back. I have also been filming videos for my Youtube channel and that has taken a big chunk of my time. I don’t handle stress very well and I am working with time management and organization, but I have the personality type that wants to get everything done right away (let me know if you can relate!)
This post is by no means me complaining because I actually thrive off stress. I love being busy because it keeps me sane. With everything that’s been going on, I have found myself using Instagram less frequently. For those who keep up with me know that I often post once a day. For the past two weeks, I have posted less, and have even skipped posting 2-3 days, which I NEVER do. However, what I’ve learned is that I have been less stressed because I don’t find myself catching up with others for hours and finding myself consumed with engaging with all the posts, watching everybody’s stories, etc. I sometimes do feel like I’m missing out especially since I don’t see all my friends’ new posts, but with Instagram’s algorithm, I barely see them anyways.
I have learned that it’s okay to not post everyday. The time that I take away from using Instagram has been time given back to me for other priorities in my life for my professional career and personal life. I still make it a priority to dedicate time to engaging with my followers and still post to remind people that I’m still alive, but I am trying to be more strategic with my time. I will also be traveling next week, which is a great way to detox from social media and be present. Do you guys ever take social media breaks? How do you juggle with being active on Instagram, while also running your blog, working your day job, etc?
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I love your jacket! I’ve been less into Instagram lately, you’re right that it does take up a lot of time. I didn’t get to shoot much in December/early Jan so I didn’t have any content and was feeling uninspired for insta. It’s getting much harder with the new algorithm 🙁
One of the main reasons I was on Instagram less was also a lack of content due to the weather, but it’s a good excuse sometimes to take a break. I get uninspired at times but breaks definitely help!
Oh wow, I love your jacket, so stylish !!!
Have a good evening <3
Olivia Poncelet
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Thank you Olivia!
I remember reading some time ago that in order to be successful on Instagram you have to post frequently and consistently. I agree with the latter, consistency is key but in terms of frequency I’d rather post quality content a few times a week than average content twice every day. I think having a break to stay creative and stay present with other things in life is totally okay and necessary. There’s more to life than Instagram 🙂
xo, Jo
I love that! Thanks for reminding me because I definitely find myself consumed with Instagram at times.
Great jacket!! We don’t post everyday on Instagram, because as you said it would take away time from our job and personal life, but we try to do our best! 🙂
kisses
Agnese & Elisa
http://desiresinstyle.com/
It’s all about finding out a schedule that works best for you!
Love what you wrote here babe!! I can’t agree more, I used to post at least 3 times a day when I first started blogging and now looking back I can’t believe how stressed out I was..my whole life was my feed lol!! Now I’m okay with taking a break and not posting every single day 🙂
XO, Jessi
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It’s all about finding a schedule that works with your lifestyle!
i love this outfit on you babe! happy early birthday, and safe travels to milan girl! i totally agree with you that it’s not necessary to post everyday. instagram shouldn’t take away from quality of life and we need to live too haha 🙂 it helps me avoid burnout and be more creative when i don’t feel obligated to post something everyday too! xo, sharon
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Since I have two upcoming trips, I know they will force me to be off social media, but I am looking forward to it 🙂
I find it so tough to balance everything. I constantly find that I’m trying to play catch up. I’ve decided to post on IG M-T and take Friday, Saturday and Sunday off. I need too.
Taking weekends off is a good idea. With all the traveling ahead of me, I will be taking a social media break which is great!
That bag is so chic and I love your leather jacket!
District of Chic
Thank you love!
Wow, looks like you have a really busy schedule in the coming months! I actually don’t post on Instagram everyday either because I’d rather post photos that I like anyways. And it’s important for me to engage with other users because it’s quite fun 🙂 Good luck with all your upcoming projects, looking forward to more content and Youtube videos!
xo Samantha
http://www.samanthamariko.com
Thank you Samantha! I am very excited for all the chaos to come!
I think it is important to step away from social media, especially instagram once in a while! I do the same.
x Caroline, http://www.silverstories.dk
I couldn’t agree more Mariann…I’ve been posting less frequently on IG…and it’s a huge relief!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
It’s amazing how much time we can back into our lives!
I think I thrive on stress and deadlines, too… but, I do enjoy a little lull every so often. Instagram can be so time consuming, especially if you start watching everyones IG Stories! I love your sunnies in these photos!
Carrie
curlycraftymom.com
Thank you Carrie! I think it’s important to find a balance of being on social media and living our personal lives.
Oh I absolutely agree with you, social media can be the best and worst of us at the same time. Some time away from social media is very much needed. Thanks for the reminder love!
With Love,
Yuena Li
http://www.simplyyue.com
I always try to have breaks every now and then just to keep my sanity!
Great post! I am not a fan of IG but it is harder for women my age to break in I think. I do love seeing everyone and staying connected through its use. Pinterest is my jam. I think it is fun and low pressure! Love your post and that jacket is so pretty!
Cheryl
https://www.northwestmountainliving.com
Pinterest is definitely a great platform to find inspiration 🙂
I totally agree, blogging is amazing but also very time consuming. It is important to take a break and relax, it doesn’t hurt. I’m taking an IG break on the weekends and a blogging break when I’m on vacation.
xx Simone
Little Glittery Box
I am trying to take breaks on weekends as well!
Such a great look and I really love your bag.
Gemma x
http://www.jacquardflower.uk
Thank you honey 🙂
I lovee your outfit you look amazing!!
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Alessa Bernal
Thanks Alessa 🙂
Instagram is also my favourite app but lately I been hating it so much!! The new algorithm is really a pain I don’t understand why they do that. Sometimes a break of social media is really need it.
xoxo
Marcy
I can relate and having breaks has been keeping me sane!
Yes, girl! It’s absolutely fine to go with the flow and just remember! You need to enjoy your real life too xxx
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Couldn’t agree more!
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